Ok, How Do I Get My Mom To Let Me Do Stuff?

I have had the same problem w/my mom. I am emo too, and she doesn't really let me do the things I want to ( like cutting myself, and I'm not crazy ). But one day I just did it and of course she was mad, but she just gave up her tantrum like three days later. I started wearing eyeliner and the same thing happened. I have wanted to live w/my g-ma once too, and she was REALLY upset, but all I had to do was be a total punk around her, and then she gave up and let me live there. I haven't had the whole christian problem though because I'm agnostic but I have christian cousins and I know how strict they are about it so that part WON'T be easy, but it will be possible. If she still doesn't let you go over to your g-parents then you should pack your stuff and runaway. You won't get away w/it but it will make her rethink it. And I know this is totally off topic but you sound cool, so you should like look me up on myspace or something ( Caitlin Cox ) and say that it's that girl from yahoo or something. So... back to the topic. Hope this helps dude